Do you seek kindness from others? Clinical Psychology

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• This article, the behavioral characteristics of people who seek the kindness and attention of others, According to the beautiful analysis of  Ms. Mahta Mohammadkashi (clinical psychologist) explains.

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• The need for the kindness of others is one of the characteristics according to which people become highly dependent on others and external factors. Everything they do needs to be approved by others.
• These people are often full of fear and need. They try hard to be satisfied, approved and admired by others. They forget themselves and do not take care of themselves and are constantly serving unhealthily to others.

You try too hard to get positive feedback from other people:

• This person strongly expects people to appreciate his goodness. In this way, when people enter into a relationship, at some point in time, they bombard the audience with their services and therefore they like to attract his attention.
• After a while, due to the lack of gratitude from those around his/her, this person reduces the intensity of his/her kindness and goes after another person.

The art of saying “No“:

• This step changes the behavioral habits of this person that make him more dependent on others; Because they can not say no.
• When his/her decision is to say no to others, you may be forced to say yes due to embarrassment, lack of confidence and other problems, and this is dependency.
• These people try to attract the kindness and attention of others.

Low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence:

• If they are in a group, they hide themselves in the crowd so that no one will ask their opinion; Even if you describe how they dress, they do not consider themselves worthy of such a definition and deny it.
• At the time of marriage or choosing a job, their expectations are low and if one day they have a chance, they will lose it because they do not consider themselves worthy of progress.

Blaming yourself:

• People who are trapped in the need for the kindness of others, by blaming themselves for all the hardships of life, try to attract the attention and love of others.

It is always dependent:

• Such people know you as the savior and hero of their lives and need the approval of others in all their work.

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Conclusion

People who fall into the trap of needing the kindness of others have a strong attachment to others and are constantly seeking approval from others and gaining their opinion and love.

Read this article and tell me at the bottom of the comments, what other behavioral characteristics do you think people in need of others’ kindness have ?? I will definitely read your opinion and answer with love .

Ms. Mahta Mohammadkashi is a clinical psychologist, a member of the Psychological System Organization, a member of the Iranian Psychological Association, a lecturer in psychology workshops and an evaluator of assessment centers, that Through its Instagram page and Telegram channel, it provides valuable and practical educational tips for those interested in living a healthy and happy life.

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