Five mistakes when dating before marriage

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• This article, lists five mistakes in dating before marriage, According to the beautiful analysis of  Ms. Mahta Mohammadkashi (clinical psychologist) explains.

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• The following are five mistakes made when dating before marriage.

A) The beginning of a romantic relationship, before sufficient knowledge

• One of the big mistakes during friendship and before the relationship becomes serious is not knowing enough about the other party. Starting a romantic relationship without knowing enough will deprive you of the opportunity to discover many important issues for choosing your partner.
• In fact, you deceive yourself because you are afraid that your romantic relationship will be in trouble.
• Therefore, when your emotions are involved without sufficient knowledge, it will be difficult to hear the cries of reason.

B) Ignoring the warning signs of potential problems

• Another mistake of dating before marriage is to consciously or unknowingly ignore the mistakes of the other party. Mistakes in premarital friendships include downplaying important issues, justifying the other party’s mistakes, or rationalizing his or her actions and denying problems.
• For example, when a person is addicted, we tell ourselves that it is okay to use drugs because of the stress of the work that s/he endures, and after marriage, she will leave it with me.

C) ‌ Ignore your beliefs and values

• When you want to marry someone, you need to be able to share your beliefs and attitudes easily and without worries. But knowing that some of your values and attitudes are inconsistent with the other person may cause you to give up your beliefs in order to reach them.
• You may be able to distance yourself from your true identity for a short time; But in the long run, you return to your true self, and this is where the debate and dissatisfaction begins.
• Of course, differences in values are not in themselves problematic; Trouble begins when you do not respect each other’s values and beliefs.

D) Give up your interests and activities

• The hasty compromises that sometimes occur about one’s activities and interests are another mistake of premarital friendship. For example, you may quit your job and become a housewife or stop going out with your friends.
• Each person has their own unique interests that are part of their existence. Therefore, giving up desires in the long run is psychologically harmful.

E) ‌ Ignoring your doubts

• Many people ignore their doubts and doubts about marriage and continue the relationship with the same hesitation. Ignoring your inner feelings and doubts is certainly wrong.
• So you should not get married until you have resolved your doubts. It is better to give your relationship time so that you can get to know the other person better.

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Conclusion

In summary, the following are five mistakes made when dating before marriage:

1. The beginning of a romantic relationship, before sufficient knowledge.
2. Ignoring the warning signs of potential problems.
3. Ignore your beliefs and values.
4. Give up your interests and activities.
5. Ignoring your doubts.

• Read this article and tell me at the bottom of the comments, what other important mistakes do you think there are before marriage during dating ?? I will definitely read your opinion and answer with love.
• Ms. Mahta Mohammadkashi is a clinical psychologist, a member of the Psychological System Organization, a member of the Iranian Psychological Association, a lecturer in psychology workshops and an evaluator of assessment centers, that Through its Instagram page and Telegram channel, it provides valuable and practical educational tips for those interested in living a healthy and happy life.
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